Resources
Survival Tools & Real Help
You’re not alone. These are real tools, real numbers, real organizations that can help. No judgment. No gatekeeping. Just access.
When you need help now
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
24/7, free, confidential. If you’re thinking about ending your life, or you’re worried about someone else, call or text 988. They get it. They won’t judge.
988lifeline.orgCrisis Text Line
Text HOME to 741741
24/7, free, confidential. Prefer texting? This is for you. Real crisis counselors respond.
crisistextline.orgNational Domestic Violence Hotline
Or text START to 88788. 24/7, free, confidential. If you’re experiencing abuse of any kind, trained advocates help you make a safety plan, find shelter, and understand your legal options.
thehotline.orgNational Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN)
24/7, free, confidential. RAINN connects you to local services, helps you process what happened, and explains your options. Reporting is your choice, not a requirement.
rainn.orglove is respect (dating abuse)
Or text LOVEIS to 22522. 24/7, free, confidential. If you’re in an abusive dating relationship, they help you recognize abuse patterns and get safe.
loveisrespect.orgThe Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ crisis support)
Or text START to 678-678. Many domestic violence hotlines also specialize in LGBTQ+ abuse. Ask when you call.
thetrevorproject.orgVeterans Crisis Line
Or text 838255. 24/7, free, confidential, for veterans, service members, and the people who love them.
veteranscrisisline.netFood, housing, utilities
211
Dial 2-1-1 or visit 211.org. This is the master resource. Search by zip code for food banks, food pantries, emergency housing, utility assistance, childcare, and disaster relief. Whatever you need, 211 can point you there.
FindHelp
Search for local health and human services in your area at findhelp.org.
Feeding America: Food Bank Locator
Search your zip code to find local food banks and food pantries. Free. No applications. No shame. Go get what you need. Find food banks near you
Food pantries: how they work
If you’ve never been to a food pantry, here’s what to expect:
- What they are: community places that give out free groceries, with no purchase required
- Who can go: usually anyone who needs it. Some ask income questions; most don’t.
- What you get: it varies: canned goods, fresh produce in season, dairy, eggs, meat, bread, pasta, rice
- No shame: everyone there is in survival mode. No judgment.
- How often: most let you come weekly or once a month, depending on the pantry
- What to bring: a bag or box (they might have bags), and your ID (optional, but helpful)
- Hours: they vary, so call ahead
Finding food pantries near you
- Call 211 and ask for “food pantries near me”
- Search Feeding America’s locator
- Call your local church, community center, or library. They often know.
- Many neighborhoods have pop-up pantries during farmers market hours
State emergency assistance
It’s different in every state, but most have emergency programs for utilities, rent, and food. Call 211 or visit 211.org to find your state’s programs.
SNAP (food stamps)
Need help buying food? Apply for SNAP. You may qualify even if you think you make too much money. SNAP puts money for groceries on an EBT card, which works like a debit card. You can buy fruits, vegetables, meat, dairy, eggs, grains, beans, and peanut butter. You can’t buy alcohol, cigarettes, or most hot prepared food.
Apply through your state’s SNAP website, call 211, or visit your local human services office. If you’re homeless, living in a shelter, or have very little money, you may qualify for expedited SNAP, which can be processed in 7 days or less.
No shame. If you need food, apply.
Benefits & financial help
USA.gov benefits
One place to search for food assistance, housing help, healthcare, utility help, and childcare support. You likely qualify for more than you think. Visit USA.gov benefits
Housing assistance & Section 8
HUD.gov lists the public housing authorities in your area. Section 8 waitlists are long, but they’re worth getting on.
TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)
Cash assistance for families. Eligibility varies by state. Call 211, or search “TANF” plus your state, like “Colorado TANF.”
Medicaid & healthcare
Free or low-cost health insurance: Medicaid.gov. Your local health department also has applications and free or sliding-scale clinics.
Addiction & substance use
SAMHSA National Helpline
1-800-662-4357 (24/7, free, confidential). Struggling with drugs or alcohol? Call this number. They listen, and they refer you to treatment. No judgment. Visit the SAMHSA National Helpline
Treatment locator
At findtreatment.gov, search for medication-assisted treatment (MAT), methadone and buprenorphine clinics, and addiction counseling. Filter by what you need and what your insurance covers.
Narcotics Anonymous & Alcoholics Anonymous
Free peer support meetings almost everywhere. Not your only option, but a real resource. Find meetings at na.org and aa.org.
Harm reduction
Harm reduction saves lives. Needle exchanges and naloxone (Narcan) are available in many areas, often free. Search “harm reduction” plus your city, or call 211.
Treatment options (know you have choices)
- Inpatient or residential: you live at the facility, with 24/7 support and more intensive care
- Outpatient: you go to appointments and live at home. More flexible, less intensive.
- Medication-assisted treatment (MAT): medications like methadone or buprenorphine plus counseling. Very effective, especially for opioids.
- Detox: medical supervision while your body adjusts, often the first step before longer treatment
Most have sliding scales or take Medicaid. Ask about it.
Peer support & recovery communities
SMART Recovery, Celebrate Recovery, and Refuge Recovery are alternatives to 12-step programs, if those don’t work for you.
Domestic violence & abuse
Understanding abuse (because it’s not always what you think)
Abuse isn’t just physical violence. It includes:
- Emotional abuse: constant criticism, gaslighting, isolation
- Financial control: controlling access to money, keeping you from working
- Sexual coercion or assault
- Controlling behavior: where you go, who you see, what you wear
- Threats or intimidation
- Threatening to harm kids, pets, or themselves
Safety planning (do this before you need it)
- Identify safe people: who can you call or stay with if you need to leave quickly?
- Have emergency cash: even $20 to $50 hidden somewhere safe
- Keep important documents safe: birth certificate, ID, Social Security card. Ask a domestic violence shelter about safe storage.
- Know your escape routes: which doors, windows, or exits could you use?
- Set a code word with trusted people: a phrase that means “I need help, I’m in danger”
- Know where shelters are: many domestic violence shelters are confidential. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline to find one near you.
- Plan for your pets too: some shelters take pets, and some programs board them for free while you’re safe. See Pets below.
Getting out safely (you don’t have to stay)
- Domestic violence shelters offer safe housing, legal advocacy, counseling, job help, and childcare support, usually for free
- Most are confidential, so your abuser won’t know where you are
- Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 to find a shelter in your area
- Many shelters help with protective orders, which are court orders that keep an abuser away from you
After you leave (the harder part)
- PTSD and trauma are normal responses to abuse. Get counseling if you can.
- Your nervous system has been in survival mode. Healing takes time.
- Protective orders are legal tools. Use them.
- Rebuilding trust, in others and in yourself, is possible, but it takes support
- If you have kids, many shelters help with custody and child support issues
If you’re supporting someone in an abusive relationship
- Believe them. Abuse is real.
- Don’t pressure them to leave. Timing and safety matter, and leaving is often the most dangerous time.
- Stay in their life. Abusers isolate people from their support.
- Help them make a safety plan
- Offer practical help: money, a place to stay, rides, childcare
- Don’t criticize their abuser, or they may pull away from you
Health & mental health
Mental health crisis
Call or text 988 for any mental health crisis, not only suicidal thoughts. For treatment referrals, call the SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357.
Local mental health services
Most communities have federally qualified health centers (FQHCs) that offer mental health services on a sliding scale, so you pay what you can afford. Search “FQHC near me,” or call 211.
Trauma & mental health (especially for system-involved people)
If you’ve been through the juvenile justice system, foster care, abuse, homelessness, or incarceration:
- You likely have trauma. That’s normal, not weakness.
- Look for trauma-informed therapists or counselors. They understand complex trauma.
- EMDR and trauma-focused CBT are well-studied treatments for trauma, and some people also find somatic therapy helpful
- Many community mental health centers offer sliding-scale fees based on income
Disability support
SSI and SSDI (Supplemental Security Income and Social Security Disability Insurance): if you’re unable to work because of a disability, you may qualify. Call the Social Security Administration at 1-800-772-1213 or visit ssa.gov.
Legal: reentry, records, rights
Legal aid (free legal help)
Find local legal aid at lawhelp.org. If you can’t afford a lawyer, legal aid can help with housing disputes, benefits appeals, child custody, and record expungement.
Record expungement & sealing
Depending on your state and your charges, you may be able to seal or expunge your record. Contact your county’s public defender’s office or legal aid to explore your options. A clear record makes jobs, housing, and everything else easier.
Veterans legal aid
If you served, most states have veteran-specific legal aid and reentry programs. Search lawhelp.org. In a crisis, call the Veterans Crisis Line: dial 988, then press 1.
Parental rights & family law
If you’re worried about custody or your kids:
- Legal aid organizations help with custody, child support, and visitation
- Many family courts have self-help centers with free legal guidance
- If you lost custody because of incarceration, abuse, or poverty, some cases can be reopened
- Call 211 or visit lawhelp.org to find family law help in your area
Work & education
American Job Centers
Federally funded and free: job training, resume help, interview prep, and job placement. Search “American Job Center near me,” or call 211.
GED & education
Most community colleges offer free or low-cost GED prep, and state education departments run programs too. Visit ged.com for official GED testing and study resources.
Credential programs
Many community colleges offer free or scholarship-funded certificates in fields like nursing, welding, and IT. Check whether you qualify for a Pell Grant, which is money for school that doesn’t have to be repaid.
Immigration & citizenship
If you’re undocumented or dealing with immigration issues:
- Many areas have free immigration legal clinics
- The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) protects immigrant survivors of abuse
- DACA, TPS, and other programs may apply to you. A legal clinic can tell you where things stand.
- Call 211, or search “immigration legal aid near me”
Colorado resources
988 Colorado (formerly Colorado Crisis Services)
Call or text 988 for mental health and substance use crisis support.
988colorado.comColorado Department of Human Services
SNAP, housing assistance, cash assistance, and healthcare. 303-866-5700
cdhs.colorado.govColorado Legal Services
For people with low incomes: legal help with housing, benefits, and record issues. 303-837-1313
coloradolegalservices.orgReentry support
For people transitioning out of corrections. Search “Colorado reentry services” for programs in your area, or call 211.
Domestic violence support
Boulder area: SPAN (Safehouse Progressive Alliance for Nonviolence), serving Boulder County. 24/7 crisis line, English and Spanish: 303-444-2424
Longmont area: Safe Shelter of the St. Vrain Valley
Statewide: Violence Free Colorado, 303-831-9632
Most shelters offer confidential housing, legal advocacy, and support services.
Annie & Millie’s Place
Keeps people experiencing homelessness together with their pets, in and near Longmont and Boulder County. Help with pet food and supplies, urgent vet needs, and free pet clinics. Reach them by email or text through their website.
annieandmillies.orgColorado Victim Compensation Program
If you’re a crime victim, including of domestic violence, you may be eligible for help with medical bills, lost wages, and counseling. Call your local victim advocacy office or district attorney’s office.
Pets: keep your animals with you
Many people won’t leave a dangerous home, go into a shelter, or go to the hospital because of their pets. You shouldn’t have to choose between your safety and your animals. These programs help keep pets fed, healthy, and with the people who love them.
Annie & Millie’s Place
For people experiencing homelessness in and near Longmont and Boulder County. They help with pet food and supplies, urgent vet needs, and free pet clinics, and they work for more pet-friendly shelter. Reach them by email or text through their website.
annieandmillies.orgFree pet food: Colorado Pet Pantry
Free pet food days in Boulder County at OUR Center in Longmont, EFAA in Boulder, and Sister Carmen in Lafayette, plus more than 100 sites around Colorado. Check the calendar for dates and what to bring.
coloradopetpantry.orgLongmont Humane Society Pet Pantry
Free pet food, bedding, leashes, and collars, open to the public. Monday to Thursday 12 to 6, Friday to Sunday 11 to 6, at 9595 Nelson Road, Longmont. Use the Intake Lobby entrance. If an emergency forces you out of your home, ask about short-term emergency boarding (fee, limited space).
longmonthumane.orgHumane Society of Boulder Valley Safety Net
For Boulder and Broomfield County residents: free pet food and supplies, temporary housing for your pets if you’re in the hospital, leaving domestic violence, or displaced by a disaster, and help paying for urgent vet care. Email safetynet@boulderhumane.org or apply online, in English or Spanish.
boulderhumane.orgLeaving abuse with your pets
SPAN’s shelter in Boulder County has rooms where survivors can stay with their dogs and cats. Ask when you call the 24/7 crisis line. Staying in a shelter that can’t take pets? RedRover’s Safe Escape grants pay to board your pets for up to 45 days. Your shelter advocate applies for you.
redrover.orgPets of the Homeless
Nationwide. Free pet food and emergency vet care for people experiencing homelessness. Search for food and help locations near you.
petsofthehomeless.orgFind more pet help
Search by zip code for free or low-cost pet food, vet care, and more. Or call 211 and ask about pet resources near you.
pets.findhelp.comHow to use these resources
- Everything here is real and free or low-cost. Don’t be ashamed to use it. These systems exist because people fought for them. Use them.
- You don’t have to do it alone. Call 211. Tell them your situation. They’ll walk you through what you qualify for.
- Keep the numbers. Screenshot this page and save the numbers in your phone. When you’re in crisis, you won’t want to search.
- Different places for different needs. 211 is the hub, but each resource is specific. Use the right tool for what you need.
- Your information is generally protected. Benefits, legal help, and mental health services are usually confidential. If you’re worried, ask about privacy before you share details.
We’re building more
This list will grow as we add:
- Workbooks and step-by-step guides for applying for benefits
- How to navigate legal systems
- Practical guides for specific situations, like housing or a job search after incarceration
- Lessons we’ve learned
One more thing
You survived getting to this page
That took strength. These resources exist for you. You’re not broken for needing help.
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